Paul wrote that “God is not the author of confusion, but of peace.” That doesn’t mean Christians never feel confused. It means confusion isn’t where God wants to leave us. St Ignatius of Loyola, who wrote one of the most practical guides to decision-making in Christian history, taught that God often guides us through a deep, steady peace, not through anxiety and agitation.
Historical Context
A Prayer for Confusion
Lord, my mind is clouded and I don’t know what to do.
Quiet the noise in my head.
Clear away fear, pressure and other people’s expectations,
so I can hear you.
Give me wisdom, and the peace that comes from your will.
Show me the next step, even if I can’t see the whole path.
Amen.
Before a Decision
Holy Spirit, I lay both choices before you.
Let me feel your peace about the right one.
Amen.
When Your Mind Is Foggy
Lord, I can’t think straight today.
Hold my thoughts together and get me through.
Amen.
Simple Steps for Discernment
- Pray first. Ask God for the freedom to want whatever he wants.
- Imagine each choice. Spend a day “living in” each option. Notice which brings lasting peace.
- Ask a wise person. A priest, mentor or spiritual director can see what you can’t.
- Don’t decide in turmoil. Ignatius advised never to change a decision in a time of desolation.
Scripture Connection
“Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.” — Proverbs 3:5-6
Confusion often comes from leaning on our own understanding alone. Proverbs invites us to lean on God, and promises direction.
Related prayers
For guidance, see the Divine Providence Prayer and Prayer for Purpose. For anxiety, the St Francis de Sales Prayer.