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Prayer For Commitment

We live in a culture that keeps its options open. Subscriptions can be cancelled anytime, jobs change every few years, and long-term promises can feel risky. Yet the things that matter most, marriage, raising children, friendship, faith, all depend on commitment: deciding once and then keeping that decision on the days you don’t feel like it.

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Ruth is the Bible’s great picture of commitment. Widowed, with every reason to go home to her own people, she told her mother-in-law Naomi: “Whither thou goest, I will go; and where thou lodgest, I will lodge: thy people shall be my people, and thy God my God.” She didn’t know where it would lead. She kept her word, and became the great-grandmother of King David.

Historical Context

Scripture: Ruth’s vow, Ruth 1:16-17
God’s faithfulness: “Great is thy faithfulness,” Lamentations 3:23
Theme: Faithfulness, perseverance, keeping promises

A Prayer for Commitment

Lord, you have never broken a promise to me.
Make me faithful like you.
Help me keep my word when it’s hard,
to stay when it would be easier to leave,
and to finish what I’ve started.
Strengthen my commitment to my family, my work and to you.
Amen.

For Commitment in Marriage

Lord, I promised to love in good times and bad.
Help me keep that promise today, in the ordinary middle of it.
Amen.

For a Relationship Moving Toward Commitment

Lord, give us wisdom about our future.
If this is your will, give us courage to commit to each other.
Amen.

For Commitment to God

Lord, I’ve been half-hearted.
I commit myself to you again: whither thou goest, I will go.
Amen.

Best Times for This Prayer

  • Before an engagement, wedding or anniversary.
  • When tempted to quit something worthwhile.
  • At New Year, when making resolutions.

Scripture Connection

“Commit thy way unto the LORD; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass.” — Psalm 37:5

Commitment starts with God. When we commit our way to him, he helps us keep the commitments we make to others.

Related prayers

For marriage, see The Knot Prayer and the Prayer for a Long Distance Relationship. For integrity, the Integrity Prayer.

About Stephen S. Griffin

Stephen S. Griffin is the pen name of the person who runs Guided by Prayer, a reference library of prayers. How the prayers are written and sourced.

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